The Sevillan way of life might sound unreal, imaginative or crazy to those who have experienced nothing like it. It is a life full of enjoyment and no rules. For me, it has been a life that I have easily adapted to and perhaps too easily…
It is also difficult to explain this kind of life, but I will try with these 5 key traits.
1. Meals (except breakfast): The food here is amazing. EVERYTHING is made fresh. Literally, everything. Ever gone to a county fair and got that freeze-dried or super fried food? Here, at the fair there is fresh food made to enjoy. I ordered a pizza and they rolled out the dough, cut some tomatoes, onions, cheese and made the pizza minutes before it was eaten. In addition to amazing food, you must also enjoy conversation. The people here are very sociable, and it is very rare to ever see anyone eating alone. Many people go home from work in order to cook and eat lunch, rather than taking it and eating it just any ole place. After taking about an hour and a half to enjoy a meal, talk with the family about the weather, how crazy Barcelona is and how Sevilla FC is the best futbol team ever, it is time for a nap. After lunch, there is this amazing thing called SIESTA.
2. Siesta: This is pretty much the greatest thing anyone ever thought to make happen. After a great big delicious meal, which is known as lunch, it is time for a nap. Lunch in Sevilla is at about 2 or 3. So, almost all the shops and stores close from 2-5p or 3-6pm. The only things that do remain open are the very touristy, super expensive cafes and gift shops. Otherwise, everything is closed and everyone has gone home to eat a great big meal and take a nap afterwards. Fun Fact: The siesta started because it is absolutely too hot during that time of the day to go anywhere, or do anything but sleep. I think this is something Maryland should adopt, because it also gets very, very hot in Maryland. This is also something I have gotten very used to, and if I have to go a day without siesta (i.e. because i’m super busy), my whole life feels out of balance. It is literally a necessary 3 or 4 hours in the middle of the day with absolutely no work, definitely no school, no homework and simply enjoying time.
3. Besos: Ever heard of PDA (Public Display of affection)? So, I haven’t asked, but I feel certain they don’t have a word for that in Spanish because it is not something worth bringing attention to. Everyone just kisses, gives hugs and even makes out everywhere, because it is a part of the lifestyle here. It’s very common for friends to be sitting on each others laps, greeting everyone with a double kiss, and for couples to be making out in the street. When I told my host mother that the amount of kissing I have seen here in Sevilla and how it is nothing compared to home, she just explained to me that people are full of love here and it’s hard to keep it hidden. I definitely feel the love here. The people are just so nice, I don’t even mind the PDA. It’s not gross, it’s very obvious it is all an expression of enjoyment in being with another person.
4. Sevillanos: There is just something so nice about the people here, that goes beyond their public displays of affection. I was walking along the river the other day and a tourist boat passed by. It was playing the song ‘happy’ by Pharrell Williams (because American music is extremely popular here). I then passed an elderly man who was obviously going on his morning walk, and when I did,he threw up his arms, smiled, and yelled “Happy!” in a very adorable spanish accent. The people here are just so nice and welcoming. I have been able to meet many strangers and they have all welcomed me to Sevilla with open arms and a kiss, literally (remember what I said about public affection).
6. Work? What’s that?: The unemployment rate is extremely high in Spain. I think it’s actually worse than in the USA. The economy is, admittedly, not so great here either. But, people are happy. And – now get this – EVEN WHEN THEY WORK. So, I always pass by the security guards at the parking garages, or the security in an apartment complex and want to take a picture because if an employer in the US saw what I see, that employee would be fired. It’s very common to see the security reading a book or magazine, or talking with friends while working. Tonight, I even saw a parking garage security person who had moved a bed into the security cube so he could lay down and read while working. He wanted to be comfortable, I respect that.
7.Rules and Safety: There seem to be no rules. I have not seen anyone get arrested. I have never seen anyone get pulled over, or receive a ticket. Cars park wherever they want to – on the curb, in the grass, on a curve, in front of a fire hydrant – there aren’t really lined parking spots like we have in the USA. Yes, there are police officers, but they seem to be there more in case of an emergency. For example, I saw the police show up when there was a truck that got a flat tire. And although the security guards might be what some people could call ‘slacking’, I have never felt so safe in a city before. There is an honor code here which I have never experienced. It’s unwritten, because like I mentioned before, there really aren’t any rules, but it’s an unspoken ‘if you don’t steal my stuff, I won’t steal yours, let’s just enjoy life’ rule. AND IT WORKS.
Sevillans enjoy their food, enjoy their rest, enjoy the kisses, enjoy company, enjoy their time and enjoy life. These are just a few things I have experienced and enjoyed about the culture of Sevilla in my perspective.